unforunately, you're going to have to make 52 awkward phone calls. for the people who added extra guests when they replied, which is the most tacky and gauche thing second only to asking for cash instead of gifts, you have to tell them there isn't enough room at the inn (or wherever you're having the reception) and that's why you only invited the people the invite was addressed to, duh. people are so stupid. then call everyone else who hasn't rsvp'd and make them feel a little bad for not working with your time frame. |