For the same reason that people of all ages have nightmares; the unconscious mind is alerting us to issues that need our attention. Children lack the insight to make use of the symbols in their dreams, unfortunately, and experience nightmares as emotional realities. There is plenty to be spooked by in life, so the best way to help a child through a bad patch is to double up on the praise and reassurance. It works for grown ups as well, so hug yourself and say "I love you!!" |